Tomorrow, I will say goodbye to my 16-1/2- year-old sweet Brandy. In September 2014, I published this photo on Monochromia, and tonight, I felt the need to share it again. Back then, I wrote:
She’s mostly deaf, losing more of her sight weekly, turning grayer each month. But this soon-to-be 15-year-old miniature pinscher is still my loyal companion. And I love watching her as she curls up and naps in the little spots of light and warmth that she finds around the house. Love you, Brandy, old girl…
She did end up deaf and blind, and especially lately, she has begun to struggle more and more. I have prayed for her to go in her sleep, but apparently this is not to be. And so, two days ago, we had to make the difficult and painful decision to help her go. Perhaps, in the end, Brandy knows best: she will be surrounded by those she loves and who love her, and that really does give me peace.
Yesterday, a friend shared a long-ago quote by Roger Caras, the host of the annual Westminster Kennel Club Dog Show: “Dogs are not our whole life, but they make our lives whole.” To Brandy, thank you for enriching our lives with laughter, cuddles, and above all, your unflagging love. My heart is heavy, but I know you will rest among the angels.
I’m so sorry to hear this news Stacy. It’s so incredibly hard to say good bye. Big hugs.
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I’m so sorry, Stacy. I love the little wrinkle in her nose in the photo.
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Sweet Brandy. She shall be remembered well by her loved ones. 😀
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A year ago I lost my golden retriever Neo, so I know how you feel.
I deeply regret your loss.
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Such a hard decision to make, Stacy. Sending you hugs at this very sad time. What a sweet face Brandy has. xx
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Take courage, Stacy! Hugs to you.
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I’m heartbroken to hear this news, Stacy. My thoughts are with you and your family as Brandy makes her way across the rainbow bridge.
Lots of love from Toby and I.
xx
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So sorry Stacy, my thoughts go out to you and your family.
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I’m so sorry for your loss. She will rest among the angels. sweet girl.
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Awww Stacy I’m so sorry. My heart was broken when I made a similiar decision a few years ago. Prayers and hugs for you today. ❤
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So sorry to hear that Stacy. They are such a big part of a family – in my thoughts.
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Sad news. Take care.
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16 years is a significant age for a dog and that does not diminish the sorrow when they have to leave. I thought that my Jack Russel, 16 years old and deaf and blind like your Brandy, would take the decision die in my arms – but he didn´t, he died alone. You made the right decision to let him die souurounded by people that love him.
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So very sorry to read this post…
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No doubt there will be a big hole in your home…but memories
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I can totally understand your paim loosing a dear family member. Take care , and let the tears flow…
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Thinking of you Stacy…I understand your pain. And my heart is heavy with you..sending you and your family big hugs… xx
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Glad I had the opportunity to share a few days with her. Sending the biggest hug to you knowing how hard this is. 😢❤️
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No words I say will bring your sadness to an end… but know I send you heartfelt love. Brandy was there for you always… now it’s your turn to be there for her. HUGS to you.
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Oh Stacy I feel for you. Sending you a big hug and a gentle pat for your Brandy.
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Oh Stacey I feel for you. Sending you a big hug and a gentle pat for your Brandy.💕🐾
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I am so sorry to hear this Stacy. My heart goes out to you at this painful time.
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What a horrible decision to have to make and I praise your courage in doing so for your loyal companions sake. I will be thinking of you at this time. What a beautiful friend to have had and how lucky was she to have been part of your loving family as well. Biggest hugs xx
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I’m writing this and trying very hard not to tear up too much. We are coming up fast to having to do something similar for our lovely cat. Take care.
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It is such a hard time and my heart breaks for you Stacy – you are doing the right thing. What a blessing our little companions are for us and while their going leaves a pet sized hole in our hearts – where would we have been without them? xoxo
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I’m so sorry. I know the pain you are going though.
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